Why are we attracting the same conditions?
Everything that happens in our life reflects our inner state of being. It must because no two people have the same lesson from their experience. Therefore, it emphasizes that what we think is external to our reality, regardless of whether we are aware of it. Many people struggle with this idea and try to change external circumstances to coincide with their inner state of being. For example, if we are unhappy about being single, we will look for a partner. If the relationship does not meet our expectations, we may end it because it has not met our needs. The same thing happens in other areas of life. We are desperately trying to change the world outside of us, to make ourselves happy. But this is a recipe for disaster because the key to happiness is to reverse engineer the process.
We must first adapt our thoughts, then we will attract the ideal conditions that correspond to our inner vision. Can you identify with this? Have you experienced something similar? It is a common situation because we are convinced that the only way to achieve happiness is to change the external conditions. Unfortunately, we cannot change reality and therefore we can only control our inner state of being. Can you remember the children’s toy you used to play with called the Shape Sorter, where you had to insert a circle, triangle or square in its corresponding shape? The toy is useful for building models of children’s fine motor skills. Some children initially struggle to fit a triangle into a square hole, but eventually work out the correct block.
I propose to adopt a similar analogy and to align our thoughts with our true desires, instead of trying to manipulate reality. Therefore, it is not our circumstances that determine the quality of our life, but the way we react to it. We need to find out why we are attracting the same conditions. For example, do you repeatedly attract the same negative experiences? Could it be with your finances, health, relationships, or career? I know it’s frustrating because there was a time when I was attracting difficult experiences without knowing why. I was spinning the wheels and couldn’t see beyond my difficulties.
When I stopped trying to change external circumstances and accepted my problems, my life improved enormously. I accepted that I was attracting undesirable circumstances and discovered why these patterns kept repeating themselves. I worked through the wounds of my childhood where anger, resentment and shame operated and sabotaged my happiness. On a conscious level, I knew what I wanted my life to be, but my actions did not conform to my innermost thoughts. There was a discrepancy between what I wanted and what was materializing in my life. Then, I analyzed my old beliefs that were creating my difficult experiences and adapted them to correspond to a new reality.
You are not powerless to change your life
I realize this might sound like a lot of hard work. But what’s the rush, if you keep repeating the same patterns and attracting negative circumstances? I was surprised when people say, “It had to be” because what I feel is resignation and apathy in their words. I feel like someone who is not in control of their life and feels powerless to change their circumstances. How we respond to our problems is based on our attitude. Our answer is how we claim control over our circumstances instead of allowing them to defeat us. Life reflects our innermost beliefs about reality. When people say life is good or bad, they disagree because life is impartial. It is a hidden mirror that reflects what we hold in our hearts and minds.
Do you feel like you have more power than you think? Can you see by directing your thoughts, do you change your life in a different direction? You don’t have to keep recycling the same conditions. I assume that since you are reading this article, are you drawn to the message these words convey? I suppose you want to make changes, but are you afraid or don’t know what steps to take? Alright then. It’s okay to be scared and not know how to get out of current circumstances; it means that you will continue to search for answers. But don’t believe for a second that you won’t be able to change your life. It may seem that way from your current position because you are focused on the problem, not the solution.
So here’s an exercise I invite you to undertake if you are serious about overcoming your current challenges. In a recent blog post via his website, researcher and lecturer Dr Joe Dispenza invites us to answer five questions regarding our current challenges. I recently completed the exercise on a current problem and found it invaluable to look at my situation from a new perspective. Instead of dwelling on the problem, I could see how it was contributing to my personal growth. In fact, I found five benefits that the problem was contributing to my life. So, after you finish reading this article, take 10 or 15 minutes and complete the questions. See if you can find the hidden treasure contained in your current problem. Give yourself the gift of responding to your challenges in a different way. It is only when we step outside the box and see our problems from a new perspective that we will completely change our life.
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